Writting it out

Inspirational Quotes for the day

Accept no one’s definition of your life; define yourself.

 

Pray as if it’s up to God, work as if it’s up to you.

 

Stop wishing for it and start working for it.

 

What you will allow is what will continue.

 

Don’t put the key to your happiness in someone else’s pocket.

A daughter is one of the most BEAUTIFUL gifts this world has to give. -Laurel Atherton

 

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Writer: Kiran Parmar Chetan Nagajanbhai Keshwala રાજીવ બસમાં સફર કરી રહ્યો છે. બસ એક બસ સ્ટોપ પર આવી ઉભી,એક યુવતી બસમા ચઢે છે અને બેસવા માટે સીટ શોધી રહી છે. યુવતીએ જોયુ કે બસમાં બે સીટ ખાલી છે. યુવતીએ વેસ્ટર્ન પહેરવેશ પહેરલ છે. યુવતી એક ઉંમરલાયક પુરૂષ પાસે ખાલી રહેલી સીટ પર બેસે છે. રાજીવ […]

via “તમારે કેવા સમાજ થવુ છે?” — Kiran Parmar

The Hometown

Hello Readers. ( if I have any )

I would like to share one small part of my book ” The Hometown”.

“Relax Neeta, we all wish to have certain things in our life, but we never get it. We have to learn to live with this hard truth of life,” Karan said and departed from Neeta’s hug.

“True, there will be always such wishes till our last. Sometime some gets fulfilled and sometime we get new wishes. Before my dad adopted me, I wished to get adopted and now I wish I could have a mother too,” Neeta said. “Do you know what the toughest part is for a kid in an orphanage? When a couple comes to adopt a kid, they first call every kid into the office to choose one from them. Our caretaker used to give us good clothes first. They got us ready with proper hair combing, powder on our face, mascara on our eyes, and used to tell us to behave better in front of the couple. They might like you and take you to their home. There you will have lots of good clothes, lots of chocolates to eat, and toys to play; you will go to a big school with a nice school bag. And we all would get ready in excitement to go into the office; we used to stand in one long queue facing those couples every day. With thought in mind that today may be I will get selected and they will take me with them to their home. But they select only one, and all the others have to go outside of the office again. We would come out of the office with the pain that we are not selected; all of a sudden the new frock, hair, powder starts to give pain to us like we never wanted to wear it again,” Neeta started crying on the terrace like a kid, but she continued.

“We used to feel like they came to buy us, but we were not good enough, so they did not buy us. One of us got lucky and went outside with them and all the others had to again go to that dusty ground inside the orphanage and start to play with the other kids to try to forget that couple who came to be our parents.”
“And the next day we would again be in front of a new couple.”

We all got mute on the terrace, it was pin drop silence. All of us were lost in some thoughts for at least a minute.

This is one of small part of my book, If you liked it please do read my whole book and review it. 

Thank you

 

War killed my dad, but who started the WAR ?

BJP MP compares Kargil soldier’s daughter to Dawood Ibrahim for taking an anti-war stand

On Twitter, Pratap Simha said the Mumbai serial blasts’ mastermind did not use ‘his [policeman] father’s name to justify his anti-national stand’.

Bharatiya Janata Party MP Pratap Simha on Sunday compared Gurmehar Kaur, daughter of an Army captain killed during the Kargil war, to Mumbai serial blasts mastermind Dawood Ibrahim. On Twitter, Simha posted juxtaposed images of Kaur and Ibrahim with a caption that read, “At least Dawood did not use the crutches of his [policeman] father’s name to justify his anti-national stand”.

The Mysuru-Kodagu MP’s post is a reference to Kaur’s silent video campaign made in 2016, calling for an end to state-sponsored conflict between India and Pakistan. “Pakistan did not kill my dad, war killed him,” she said. Simha’s post has Ibrahim holding a placard that reads, “I did not kill people in 1993, bombs killed them.”

Kaur’s more recent campaign against the right-wing Akhil Bharatiya Vidyarthi Parishad’s violence at Ramjas College in Delhi led viewers to her campaign against state-sponsored conflict. In the older campaign, she had said, “I also remember how much I used to hate Pakistan and Pakistanis because they killed my dad. I used to hate Muslims too because I thought all Muslims are Pakistanis.”

While her campaign against the violence in Delhi got mixed responses, reactions from cricketer Virendra Sehwag and actor Randeep Hooda escalated the controversy on the internet. On Sunday, Sehwag had published a post that showed him holding a placard that read, “I didn’t score two triple centuries. My bat did.” Hooda had said Kaur’s campaign “reeks of political usage of a man’s child who died defending the line drawn.”

Union Minister Kiren Rijiju also raised doubts about the campaign. “Who is polluting this young girl’s mind?” Rijiju posted.

Journalist Shekhar Gupta criticised Sehwag and Hooda. “Nobody’s patriotism needs certificates and hers has stamp of her father’s supreme sacrifice,” his Twitter post said.

The 20-year-old had said she has received rape threats in response to her campaign.

Start Business with Rs.5000/-

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Small Budget, Premium Weddings

Yes, Small Budget, Premium Weddings is lil’bit confuing name as Premium wedding is not possible with small budget, this is what we think at first.

But it is possible if you plan accordningly.

Sometimes simple design makes everything so rich, as you can see in Images i have attached here, the costing of such wedding decor is nothing but just Rs.20,000/- only.

Yes, you read it correctly, Such decor is avaible in India market at just 20,000/- with color options in fabric and artficial flowers.

All we need is to find such vendors who can understand our simple concept for premium looking wedding.

Good luck. Thank you

Ban on big Indian Weddings

Jammu and Kashmir bans Big fat weddings got bans by Jammu and Kashmir Goverment.

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Yes, it’s true. Now there will be limitation on numbers of guest and items on dishes.

This is new ban by PDP-BJP goverment in Jammu & Kashmir, India.

In an order issued by Secretary to J&K Government, Department of Food, Civil Supplies and Consumer Affairs, Shafiq Ahmed Raina, it was stated that the department has number of complaints and representations from people regarding injudicious use of essential commodities and extravaganza expenditures being made in both public and private functions by most of the people in the State.

It stated that taking into consideration the complaints of people, it has been decided by the government to ban fat weddings in the State.

“The number of guests to be invited for the marriage of daughter (barat) and marriage of son should be restricted to a maximum of 500 and 400 people respectively. Only 100 people should be invited to attend like engagements and other small functions,” reads the official order.

As per the order, the number of vegetable and non-vegetable dishes to be cooked in marriage and other functions should be restricted to a maximum of seven each besides two stalls of sweets or fruits.

In Kashmir, wazwan, the traditional Kashmiri cuisine, is served during the marriage functions.  The wazwan is prepared by traditional local chefs, known as ‘Wazas’, who specialize in cooking the mostly mutton-based feast.

The government has said the order to restrict number of dishes and number of guests in marriage and other functions will come into effect in the State from April 1 this year.

“It should be ensured that there is no wastage of any food items uncooked or cooked during the wedding functions. If there are some surplus food items (cooked), it should not be thrown into dustbins but provided to deserving people and old age homes after properly preserving and packing,” reads the order.

It further stated that there shall be complete ban on sending dry fruits and sweet packets, etc with invitation cards by any person to relatives, friends, guests, invitees, etc.

The government has also ordered ban on use of amplifiers, loudspeakers and firecrackers during the private and official functions.

“There shall be complete ban on use of amplifiers, loud speakers, fire crackers in any government or private social functions,” reads the order adding “It will save the general public from the inconvenience of noise pollution and air pollution caused by the various gadgets.”

Nowadays, in marriage functions in Kashmir, there is a lot of noise due to use of high pitch sound amplifiers, loud speakers, decks, profuse lightning, bursting of crackers etc.

J&K Minister for Food, Civil Supplies, and Consumer Affairs (FCS&CA) Choudhary Zulfkar Ali assured strict implementation of the order. “The law is same for everyone, and would be applied to all, irrespective, of his/her status in the society.”

He said keeping in view that many people have already distributed invitation cards, and have made arrangements as per the invitation, therefore, a buffer period of 40 days is given to them and the order would be applicable from April 1.

The J&K government’s decision to ban big fat weddings comes at a time when a bill (Marriages Compulsory Registration and Prevention of Wasteful Expenditure Bill, 2016) has been introduced in Lok Sabha to put a limit on the number of guests to be invited and dishes to be served in weddings to check the “show of wealth”.

The bill introduced by Congress MP from Bihar Ranjeet Ranjan, wife of MP Pappu Yadav, wants those spending above Rs 5 lakh to contribute towards marriages of poor girls.

In 2004, the then PDP-Congress coalition government had ordered the “guest control” in marriage functions. However, the order was revoked within few months.

But now thing is it will affect on many agencies, GDP is all about spending money, and they are banning it, We can understand food wasting should be stop, but spending money on decoration and other stuff is good for many labor and workers in wedding industry.

Yes, I still Remember

​Yes, I still remember.


She was going home by walk, I parked my ride on the road to get her way block.
With the help of a blade in my right hand, I got blood on my other hand,
It was paining like hell in the rain, but the tears were there for some other pain,
Tears from both eyes were playing a racing game, throat was not able to call her name,
Yes, I Still remember.
Like a man I tried, she ignored and again I cried,
She walked away and away. I was still standing there anyway,
Tears rolled down like a river, I shouted her name higher than ever,
Eyes were waiting for her turn and look, and waited till the road turn and she took,
My eye lost the sights, all went black and i fell on my back..!
Yes , i still remember 
It was so beautiful, It was so true. 
I wont lie, I want to do it again and Die.
– Ssandeep B Teraiya

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